Once taboo, sex toys are now widely popular as they do not only heighten the pleasure and excitement in the bedroom but also help in discovering what stimuli work best for different people.
They can bring life to kinky fantasies, enable new sexual positions, or give that little push needed to achieve those multiple orgasms.
A combination of different sex toys makes the bedroom experience fun, unpredictable, and definitely unforgettable. Online shopping has made these toys more accessible and buying it more discreet, as well as a wide range of products.
Given that, what’s stopping people from trying sex toys? If ever you have to choose – would you prefer vibrators or dildos? Anal plugs or clitoral massagers? Nipple clamps or kinky costumes?
Here are some of the best sex toys on the market that can help you and your partner reach that big, important, and oh-so-pleasurable O.
9. Anal Plugs
Anal plugs are like dildos in that they are both meant to be inserted. However, anal plugs are usually shorter and smaller because they are specifically made for the rectum.
Shapes may vary from either a rounder head with a narrower base or the opposite to accommodate more niches. An important design of anal plugs, however, is their flared base, which serves as a grip or handle so that the device does not get lost in the rectum.
Anal plugs may be more adventurous than the others on this list, but a lot of people swear that anal stimulation really enhances the orgasmic experience.
Butt plugs are also useful during foreplay as they are used to relax the muscles in preparation for anal sex. They are usually made out of latex or silicone for easier cleaning and smoother surfaces to avoid embarrassing injuries.
These toys have carved out their own place in the realm of pop culture – they are now being give fashionable overhauls! Some now have their ends shaped like fake animal tails; some have “anal jewelries” such as precious stones attached to their flared base.
8. Ben Wa Balls
These sex toys are small – usually metal – balls that are meant to be inserted into the vagina. They are hollow because they contain small weights inside, like clappers or little marbles. These increase sexual stimulation when they roll around as they vibrate ever-so-slightly. They originated in Japan around 500 AD, and have lasted until today, with good reason.
The secret to them is that they do not directly or intensely stimulate: they are built to tease, increasing anticipation of sexual intercourse. This results in a harder, more forceful orgasm.
They’re also recommended by gynecologists in order to strengthen your Kegel muscles, which leads to better bladder control, better vaginal flexibility and easier-to-attain orgasms.
The ability to flex those vaginal muscles has obvious benefits for you and your partner. If you’re looking for a challenge, you can also try vibrating Ben Wa Balls which are a step up from the regular ones, as they provide stronger stimulation and require greater control to hold them in.
A related product is anal beads, which are inserted into the rectum for stimulation. These are made of little balls arranged in a line that has a handle or ring at the end to make it easier to pull out. Unlike Ben Wa Balls, anal beads are used for shorter time periods but still deliver the same sexual arousal and stimulation.
7. Vibrating Underwear
If sexy lingerie already heightens the sexual mood, what more will a vibrating underwear do? Complete sets – panties, briefs, and bras – are now available, making sure all your sensitive parts are covered. This underwear usually comes attached with wireless stimulators that are positioned directly at the erogenous zones, for optimal arousal.
Traditionally, a separate remote controls the stimulator. Now, however, as technology advances, you can utilize your smartphone to control these vibrating undergarments, just assisted by a mobile application. This discreet yet very effective sex toy is good for all genders and even for all sorts of situations.
You can wear them at the start of your day and take it anywhere with you, your partner (who has the control, making it more erotic) being the only person to know about your dirty little secret. Contributing to their popularity is the wide range of styles and designs available: similar to a regular undergarment, you can find that vibrating underwears come as thongs, bikinis, g-strings in different fabrics like silk, chiffon and lace, in different sizes.
Given such wide variety of options, the whole day can be one long foreplay, and you’ll both be ready for the great orgasmic finale once you get home.
6. Adult Playsets
Leave the kids out of this playground, this one’s meant for another kind of (fore)play. Adult playsets can be used to discover new sexual positions, incorporating fun and (especially) kinky element to the whole experience.
For example, swing sets made for this purpose use a combination of straps, restraints and padded seats for a unique sexual experience. One person will sit on the seat, while the other one places his arms in the stirrups and straps, swinging (and thrusting) until he finishes his deed.
For first-timers, a learning curve needs to be overcome: it can take some trial-and-error in order to get the sexual positions to work and be pleasurable. This is not a setback, however – such ‘adventure’ adds to the experience.
The thrill of discovering new positions and different ways to stimulate each other prolongs anticipation and arousal, making climax more intense. Playsets can be used indoors or outdoors, which is something you should definitely try if you are an adventurous thrill-seeker.
5. Handcuffs and Blindfolds
Unpredictability is key to spicing up sexy moments. Handcuffs, blindfolds, and other restraints provide just that. Giving up the control to your body and entrusting them to your partner, primarily focusing on your own orgasm intensifies the pleasure you are getting.
It is highly erotic and definitely a major turn-on for a lot of people being at a partner’s mercy and not knowing what he or she will do next. On the other hand, being the one in control lets you be more adventurous and imaginative in giving your partner pleasure. It is also exciting to watch and listen to your partner’s uninhibited responses to your touches.
Restraints are some of the most accessible sex toys because you don’t need to purchase specially-made items. You can use basic scarves, neckties, or other articles of clothing, all of which add an excitement to your sexual play. For those who want something more polished, specialty handcuffs and blindfolds embellished with gems, fur or even glitter can be purchased in stores specializing on sex toys.
4. Nipple Clamps
Nipples are undoubtedly one of the most erogenous zones of the body, and having clamps on them gives an individual a very unique, pleasurable sensation. Its two ends are shaped like tweezers, clothespins or clovers, and would usually have a chain connecting them.
These clamps are fastened onto the nipples with the intention of pinching them. This keeps the nipples highly sensitive, making they more responsive to any stimulation.
The experience of pleasure and pain is a unique sensation, and the trick is to find that right balance, the sweet spot is equal portions of two. Some nipple clamps are adjustable, making them perfect for those just wanting to try it out.
Other nipple clamps are also adorned with interesting designs – feathers, bells, or tassels – also making them great props when roleplaying. The sensation they bring helps make a strong, unforgettable orgasm.
3. Cock Rings
These are sex toys that are quite ‘simple’– the scrotum and testicles are inserted through a tight ring. The cock ring puts pressure on the blood flow in the penis during arousal, so men become hard harder and stay hard longer.
The penis girth also becomes slightly larger because of the constricted blood flow and tight sensation on the shaft. The resulting orgasm becomes more intense because of the build-up caused by the quite restricted cock ring.
While these toys can be made from varying materials, flexible cock rings made of rubber or similar materials are more recommended as they fit better on the male genitals. Cock rings are not meant to be worn too tight or for long periods, as they can cause irreparable damages.
Vibrating cock rings are advanced versions of the sex toy that take it a step further – when worn, the male will experience extra stimulation to their scrotum and penis. During intercourse, the vibrations add to the clitoral stimulation of the partner, if ever she is a female. With the prolonged endurance and pleasurable benefits that it endows the wearer, a cock ring makes the orgasm for all parties much better.
2. Dildos
Probably the oldest sex toy in history, the dildo has its roots as far back as Ancient Greece. The dildo is a phallus-shaped object meant for vaginal or anal insertion. The shape makes it easy to use whether during solo sessions or in an intercourse with someone, by whatever sexual orientation.
While dildos have been made with a variety of materials, the most popular are silicone as it is more durable, more affordable, and easier to clean. Variations to this sex toy have made it more ubiquitous and kinkiest choice for many people.[quote text=”Oldest sex toy in history” align=”right”]
Glass dildos are dildos that are definitely fun to use: its material makes it able to withstand heat or cold, so you can fulfill your fantasy of taking ‘it’ hot or cold: you heat them up in the microwave or just pop them in the freezer to experience different sensations.
Vibrating dildos are a variant with an extra kick to them, for more adventurous pleasure-seekers – some dildos come with suction cups meant to be attached to walls or furniture.
Strap-on dildos are also used to penetrate a partner; double-ended dildos so that the wearer of the strap-on can penetrate and be penetrated at the same time. Whether it’s a guy on girl, girl on girl, or guy on guy action, an exciting, pleasurable dildo can definitely spice things up in the bedroom.
1. Vibrators
Vibrators are some of the most popular sex toys in the market because of their ease of use and the many variants that have sprung up in the market. Historically, they were initially used to treat medical problems but have evolved (thankfully) to provide sexual pleasure to both men and women.
One of the most common vibrators is the clitoral massager. When plugged in, the whole device starts vibrating. Press it against the genitals and other erogenous spots, the buzzing motions bring waves and waves of stimulation to a person. Typical designs of these vibrators resemble a wand with a rounded end, very similar to a phallus.
Variations to this basic wand have produced shapes that mimic animals, eggs, bullets, and much, much more. There are also dual-headed vibrators designed with an extra appendage at the base – one to be inserted into the vagina and can stimulate the g-spot, while the smaller arm presses onto the clitoris for external stimulation.
The simultaneous vibrations brought about by this double ended vibrator definitely produce quicker and more powerful orgasms. Vibrators come in a variety of materials such as silicone, rubber, plastic to make them safe to use and very easy to clean. There are even waterproof vibrators that can be used for sexual play for kinky people who like to do it in the shower or the pool.
Because of their immense popularity to the buying public, technological innovations have also been introduced to these useful and handy vibrators. Some now come with remote controls that give the user the ability to adjust the speed and intensity of the vibrations, customizing and personalizing the sexual experience and climax.
A lot of vibrators have built-in batteries now as well, so gone are the days of having to find an electrical plug or dealing with a wire. You can even charge them now using power banks, making them even more convenient. There now exist “smart” vibrators that are connected to mobile applications, so you can record vibration patterns or engage in kinky play over long distances.
Whatever kind, color or make you choose, vibrators are simple but very effective sex toys that heighten the pleasure of any sexcapade.
Afterword
These are the best sex toys available today. There is not one item that does it all, every time, for every person, so it’s good to experiment with different toys to figure out what combination works best for you and your partner.
Regardless of what toys you decide to incorporate into your play today, always remember that great foreplay starts with keeping an open mind and having ‘fun’ as your main keyword. It’s this sense of adventure and willingness to let it everything go that leads to the most earth-shattering, toe-curling, and mind-blowing orgasms you can ever have.
